From “Nice Guy” to Honest Partner: Why Avoiding Conflict Isn't the Same as Caring
You're the kind of guy who doesn't want to cause problems. You've probably been told you're thoughtful, a good listener, maybe even "the calm one" in the relationship. You try to keep things peaceful and avoid being a burden. You don't ask for much. But lately, something feels off. You feel disconnected. You're not sure how to bring it up...
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Why So Many Men Feel Angry-And Still Alone
Anger gets a bad reputation. It's loud, explosive, sometimes destructive. But underneath the surface, anger is often a cover-a shield protecting more vulnerable emotions men rarely feel safe to name. As a therapist, I meet a lot of men who don't come in saying "I feel sad" or "I feel hurt." They say: "I'm angry all the time. I'm snapping...
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What to do When Therapy Feels Stagnant
You've started therapy, and even though your therapist told you that change happens slowly, you're wondering when you're actually going to feel better. Maybe things were improving for a time, and your sessions felt cathartic, and you developed new insights. Perhaps your progress led to a place where your issues feel stable, but now your sessions are boring, and you...
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Dry January and your Mental Health
Dry January is a popular tradition among some drinkers, and its health benefits are numerous and unsurprising. Few drinkers are unaware that alcohol is “bad for you”. It's widely publicized that the substance interferes with sleep, causes weight gain, has carcinogenic properties, and carries a risk of dependency for some who partake. Enter Dry January: a self-imposed challenge to not...
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Resolutions and Personal Growth
Self-efficacy is a concept in psychology defined as the belief that one is able to make the changes necessary to be successful in producing certain desired results. It's a representation of confidence in one's ability to move toward one's goals and create positive change. It also reflects a positive relationship with self, and knowledge that you are someone that you...
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Healing from Trauma with EMDR Therapy: What to Expect and How It Helps
Why EMDR Isn't Just for Trauma Survivors You might not think of yourself as someone with "trauma." Maybe you've never been to war, survived a major accident, or experienced violence. But you can still carry emotional injuries that shape how you respond to life - how you react in relationships, how you handle pressure, how quickly you shut down when...
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